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Thursday, May 5, 2011

Intambwe 7 Zo Guhitamo Impano Izashimisha Umukobwa/Umugore Ukunda

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1. Ugomba gutekereza ibintu akunda kurusha ibindi

Niba umugore/umukunzi wawe akunda amaherena, ibikomo, imyenda, filimi, cyangwa imikino yo kuri mudasobwa uzabimushakire bizamunezeza. Gusa ugomba kwitonda kugira ngo utagura ikintu umukunzi wawe afite kuko nuramuka umuguriye ikintu yari asanzwe atunze nta bwo bizamushimisha cyane nk’uko wamuha icyo akunda kandi adafite.

Ikindi kintu cyashimisha umukunzi/umugore wawe, ni ukumutungura ukamutekera ibiryo akunda. Banza umenye ubwoko bw’ibiryo akunda, ubimutekere atabizi ubundi nataha mubisangire. Ushobora kandi kugenda ukabimugurira ubundi ukabimushyira aho ari (mu rugo cyangwa iwabo niba ari umukobwa); ibi bizamushimisha kuko azabona ko umuhoza ku mutima.

Niba ugiye kumugurira impano y’imyambaro ugomba kubanza ukamenya ubwoko bw’amabara akunda ukabona kumugurira umwenda; nugura ibara adakunda uzaba ukoreye ubusa kuko atazawambara cyangwa akawambara rimwe (wenda muri busohokane cyangwa buhure) kugira ngo agushimishe ubundi akawubika kure.

Ku birebana n’injyana cyangwa se muzika ni byiza ko wamenya ubwoko mbw’indirimbo umukobwa mukundana akunda kumva, ibi bikazagufasha igihe uzaba ugiye guhitamo izo washyira kuri CD cyangwa DVD wamuha nk’impano.

Ibi ni bimwe mu bitekerezo byagufasha guhitamo impano waha umukunzi wawe, ariko ntawavuga ibyo ushobora guhitamo ngo abirangize ahubwo ni ahawe kumenya icyo akunda kuko burya abantu bakunda ibintu bitandukanye.

Mu gihe noneho utazi ikintu na kimwe akunda (cyane kuri ba bandi baba bagitangira kumenyana/guteretana), gerageza ushake umuntu ubaza ibyo umukunzi wawe akunda; ariko uzirinde kugenda ubaza buri wese kuko inkuru niba kimomo bikamugeraho ibyo uzamugurira nta gaciro na gato azabiha.

2. Gerageza kumenya neza umukobwa mukundana; usobanukirwe uwo ari we

Mbere yo kugira impano uhitiramo umukunzi wawe w’umukobwa ugomba kubanza ukamumenya neza, ukamenya niba ari umuntu ushishikazwa no guhabwa impano izo ari zo zose cyangwa niba ari umuntu ukunda ibintu bike, byoroheje, bihenze,... Niba ari umuntu ukunda ibintu bike, gerageza umenye ibyo bike akunda abe ari byo uzakoresha ugiye kumuha impano (cadeau). Nk’urugero, ashobora gusa kuba akunda chocolate nk’ikiribwa cyangwa se akunda n’ibintu birimo ibara rya chocola, nujya kugura rero uzayibandeho.

3. Reba ibintu akoresha iyo ari mu gihe cye cyo kuruhaka

Jya ugerageza gushakisha umenye ikintu akunda gukora mu gihe nta kazi afite. Urugero rwa hafi umuntu yatanga ni nk’igihe wenda ushobora gusanga iyo aruhuka akunda kuba ari kwandika cyangwa gushushanya. Niba rero mu gihe aruhuka aba arimo ashushanya, uzamugurire agakayi gato bashushanyamo (sketbook) ugaherekereshe ikaramu y’igiti (pencil) azajya akoresha ashushanya. Iyi mpano nta kabuza izamushimisha kurusha n’ibindi bindi watekereza. Zirikana ko mu gihe azaba arimo kwandika muri aka gakaye wamuguriye na buri nshuro akabumbuye azajya ahita akwibuka.

4. Ugomba kumenyana n’inshuti ze ndetse na mama we by’umwihariko

Impamvu nyamukuru ugomba gushaka ubu bucuti n’abantu bo hafi ye (barimo na Mama we) ni uko inshuti y’umuntu ndetse n’umubyeyi ari bo bantu bashobora kuba bamuzi neza, cyane ko ari bo bamarana igihe kinini. Iyi ni yo nzira nziza yo kumenya icyo umukunzi wawe akunda biciye muri aba bantu kandi bikazatuma umugurira impano adafite kuko uzaba wabibajije abantu bamuhora iruhande.

5. Ugomba kumenya ko n’igihe ufite amafaranga make ugomba guha impano umukunzi wawe

Utuntu duko duto tudasaba amafaranga menshi natwo turakora mu rukundo. Urugero, ushobora kumugurira akarabo gato gaherekejwe n’amagambo y’urukundo wenda ukaba wakwandikaho uti: “Mpora ngutekerezaho igihe cyose”. Ibi bizamushimisha kuko niyo uwo mukobwa yaba adakunda indabo amagambo uzandikaho niyo azahita aha agaciro kurusha ururabo uzaba wamuhaye.

6. Mu mpano uzatanga ntuzigere uha umukobwa impano y’amafaranga

Burya amafaranga nta bwo abarirwa mu mpano. Aho kugira ngo uhe umukobwa amafaranga ugomba kugeregeza ukamenya ikintu akeneye ubundi akaba ari cyo umugurira cyangwa se ukareba ikintu umukorera muri ayo mafaranga wateganyaga kumuha.

7. Nujya kugurira umukobwa mukundana imitako cyangwa imyenda ntukamugurire ibihendutse cyane.

Burya abakobwa benshi bakunda ibintu bisa naho bigezweho. Ibyo bintu kandi akenshi biba bihenze. Numugurira ikintu gihenze rero azishima cyane. Aha twavuga nk’ ubwoko bw’ imyambaro buzwi kandi bugezweho muri iyo minsi. Gusa ntibivuze ko ugomba kwishakamo ubushobozi udafite ugamije gushimisha umukunzi, ahubwo bivuze ko utagomba kureba nanone cya kindi kiri ku giciro cyo hasi kurusha ibindi. Aha kandi bivuze ko ushobora kumugurira ikintu gihendutse ariko kigezweho kandi uzi neza ko akunda.

Impano ni uburyo bwiza cyane bwo gushimisha umukunzi. Niba rero ugiye gushakira umukobwa ukunda impano, ni byiza ko ubitekerezaho witonze, ukabanza ukamenya ikintu ari bukunde ubundi nawe ugishakire kutakibura. Kandi uzagerageze kumuha ikintu kizajya kimutandukanya n’ abandi kikaba umwihariko kuri we.

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