Mbese Gusambana Bisenya Urugo

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Umwanditsi Suzana Squire, mu gitabo cye I Don't agira ati"Ikibazo hagati y'abagabo n'abagore si ugushakana ubwabyo, ahubwo ni ukuntu babona urugo- abantu bishyiramo ko kurushinga bibaha garanti y'amahoro n'umutuzo bihoraho. Aho igitsina n'urukundo biboneka ku bwinshi, ariko abantu baribeshya, kurushinga bizana akamenyero, kandi akamenyero kica urukundo, ka kana ko mu jisho kagashira, umugore akabona umugabo nka musaza we, umugabo akabona umugore nka mushiki we." Abantu nyamara baba bakeneye urukundo rw'ikibatsi, rushyushye,rutuma umutima utera, kuko rero akenshi rutaboneka mu rugo, abashakanye bajya kurushaka aho ruri-hanze. Abenshi ntibabwira abo bashakanye ko bafite inkundo hanze, ariko abenshi barafatwa. Message zo muri telefone nizo zikunze gufatisha abagore. Bakunze kuzibika ngo n'ejo bazazisome.

Ahubwo se gusambana bisenya urugo? Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko guca inyuma uwo mwashakanye akenshi bidatuma habaho gutandukana. 30% gusa batandukana bitewe no gucana inyuma nk'uko bitangazwa na Miriam Goldenberg, anthropologue wo muri Universite Federal ya Rio de Janeiro muri Bresil.

Ku bagabo biragoye kubabarira umugore wamuciye inyuma agasambana, bimwumvisha ko yataye agaciro nk'umugabo. Akenshi ku bagabo nk'aba no gushyukwa birabananira iyo bamenye ko umugore yabanyuze inyuma.

Akenshi ku bagore biroroshye kubabarira. Ariko mu minsi ya mbere umugore akivumbura ko umugabo yamusambaniyeho aba ari umuriro waka, umugore aba ashaka kumenya detail zose, ariko nyuma aratuza ndetse no mu rwego rw'igitsina ibintu bikaba byaba byiza, umugore arimo kugerageza kurusha "mukeba we"! Umugore agerageza gukora ibyo atigeze akorera umugabo ngo akuremo umugore waba umutwarira umugabo.