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Friday, January 25, 2008

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AMATEKA YO KWIKINISHA

Kwikinisha ni ugukinisha igitsina cyawe (imboro yawe, igituba cyawe cyangwa ikindi gice cy'umubiri nka a href="http://igituba.blogspot.com/2007/10/rugongo.html">Rugongo, amabere, umwoyo n'ahandi bifitanye isano n'igitsina kugira ngo uvanemo uburyohe bw'igitsina nta wundi muntu mufatanyije kugeza ubwo ushobora gusohora.). Kwikinisha bakunze kubyita KWIKUNDA(KWISHIMISHA KU GITSINA URI WENYINE).Kwikinisha ntibiboneka mu bantu gusa. Inyamanswa nyinshi na zo zirikinisha ndetse hari n'izikorera ibikoresho byabugenewe.

INKOMOKO Y'IJAMBO KWIKINISHA(MASTURBATION)

Iri jambo KWIKINISHA bamwe bita gutina, kwitinanga, gutinura n'andi mazina mu gifaransa no mu cyongereza ni "Masturbation". Rikomoka ku kigereki "μεζεα" risomwa ngo "mezea" rigasobanura Imboro mu bwinshi. Rikomoka kandi ku Kilatini "manus" bivuga "ukuboko" na "turbare" bisobanura "kubuza amahoro".Mu by'ukuri rero ijambo "masturbation" risobanura "kubuza imboro amahoro ukoresheje intoki".

UBURYO BWO KWIKINISHA

1.Umuntu ashobora kwikinisha akoresheje intoki ze cyangwa

2.ibikoresho byabugenewe nk'imboro z'amaplastique, cyangwa ibituba by'amaplastique n'utundi dukoresho umuntu yishakira kugira ngo asohore ari wenyine bitamugoye.

3.Hari n'abagerageza gukinisha imboro zabo bakoresheje n'utumashini bacomeka mu mashanyarazi bita "electric vibrators", bashobora kwinjiza mu gituba cyangwa mu ,mu mwoyo .Mu kwikinisha ibitsina byombi bishobora kwishunanashuna gahorogahoro ku moko n'ahandi. Hari n'abakoresha amavuta yabugenewe ngo barusheho kuryoherwa.

4.Akenshi abikinisha bo mu bitsina byombi bakunze gusoma ibitabo biganira ibyo guswerana,bakareba filime zo guswera cyangwa bakibuka abakunzi bigeze kubikorana cyangwa abantu bifuza cyane mu mutima wabo kugira ngo bibafashe kwikinisha- ibyo babyita "fantaisie" mu gifaransa cyangwa se "fantasizing" mu cyongereza. Ariko hari n'ubundi buryo bwo kwikinisha bubi cyane nko kwibuza guhumeka no kwibabaza bushobora kugira ingaruka mbi.

5.Hari abagabo bashimishwa no kwijomba utuntu nk'amakaramu na za "termometre" mu kayoboro gacamo inkari n'amasohoro(urethre) ariko ibi ni bibi kuko ushobora kwikomeretsa cyangwa ukitera indwara nko kunyara bikugoye.

Hari abikinisha bajya gusohora bakaba baretse, bakabikora inshuro nyinshi
bigatuma basohora cyane.

Si byiza kwikinisha ngo nugeza igihe cyo gusohora ubireke burundu. Bishobora gutuma wumva umerewe nabi ku bw'imitsi yo mu kiziba cy'inda iba yireze. Ukicwa n'umushyukwe!

KWIKINISHA KU BAGABO

Kwikinisha kw'abagabo kuratandukanye. Biterwa n'ibyo umuntu ahisemo kandi biterwa niba umugabo akebye cyangwa adakebye.

Bumwe mu buryo abagabo babikoramo ni:

1.gufata imboro mu ntoki utayikomeje cyane ukajya uzamura umanura ku ruti rwayo kugeza usohoye. Uburyo umuntu amanukamo azamuramo bugenda burushaho kwihuta uko yegera gusohora.

2.Hari n'abaryama bunamye kuri matora bakayikubaho imboro kugeza basohoye.

3.Hari n'abakoresha igituba cya plastique bakagisweramo.

4.Hari abakoresha amaboko yose bikinisha abandi bagakoresha ukuboko kumwe mu gihe bakoresha ukundi bikinisha amabya cyangwa imoko mu gihe basa n'abaswera mu ntoki zabo bigana uko umuntu aswera mu buryo busanzwe.

5.Hari n'abagabo n'abahungu b'abahanga bashobora kwikinisha bakoresheje umunwa n'ururimi rwabo.

KWIKINISHA KU BAGORE

Soma Isomo ryo Kwikinisha ku Bagore n'Abakobwa

KWIKINISHA BITANGIRA RYARI?

Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko 81% y'igitsina gabo gitangira Kwikinisha hagati y'imyaka 10 na 15; mu gitsina gore ni 55%. Na none kandi ngo mu bagore 18% batangira kwikinisha bafite imyaka 10, 6% bagatangira kwikinisha bafite imyaka 6.
Mu rwego rw'igitsina cy'abana abana bakunze kukwikorakora ku gitsina ugasanga ababyeyi babawira ngo "rekura aho wa cyana we!"

Igitsina gabo kigera ku gasongero ko kwikinisha iyo kigeze hagati y'imyaka 21 na 28. Iki ni igihe kigoye ku basore n'abagabo muri ino myaka. Ngo bashobora gusohora nibura inshuro 18 no kurenga ku munsi! Ubushakashatsi kandi bwerekana ko hafi abagabo bose bikinisha buri munsi kugeza ni bura ku myaka 20 no hejuru.

Ku bakobwa hagati y'imyaka 13 na 17 bikinisha nibura rimwe ku munsi ariko abagore bakuze ngo bikinisha nibura 8-9 ku kwezi ugereranyije n'inshuro 18-22 ku bagabo. Abasore benshi biyemerera ko basohora 6 ku munsi naho abakuze bavuga bumva bashaka kwikinisha nibura rimwe ku munsi.

Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko abagabo bafite abagore bakunze kwikinisha ariko ko abagore bafite abagabo badakunze kwikinisha.

Abantu bakunze gutekereza ko abantu badafite abakunzi cyangw a abo bashakanye ari bo bikinisha cyane nyamara ukuri ni uko n'abafite abo bahuza igitsina mu buryo busanzwe bikinisha kenshi.

KWIKINISHA MU MICO INYURANYE

Mu mico imwe n'imwe nk'iy'Abahopi bo muri Arizona, aba Wojeno bo muri Oceania n'ababeninois bashyigikira kandi bagatera inkunga umuco wo kwikinisha cyane cyane mu bahungu.

Mu mico imwe ya Melanesia abasore bato bakunze kwikinishanya n'abasaza. Muri Nouvelle Guinee, mu bwoko bw'Abasambia bafite imihango abahungu bakora berekana ko bakuze irimo no kwikinisha bagasohora! Nyamara ariko baha agaciro kanini amasohoro ku buryo bikinisha n'umunwa bakamira amasohoro kuko ngo kuyareka akagwa hasi ari ukwangiza. Banywa amasohoro ngo kuko afite ingufu kandi bayafata nk'amashereka y'umubyeyi.

Mu yindi mico, mu muhango umuhungu akora wo kwerekana ko akuze, akinishwa n'umutware w'ubwoko kugeza asohoye bikagaragara ko rero umwana yakuze. Mu bwoko bwitwa Agta bwo muri Philippines, abana batozwa kwikinisha bakiri bato.

IBYIZA BYO KWIKINISHA

-kwikinisha bituma umugore ashobora gusohora bitamugoye kuko aba azi umubiri we agafasha umugabo we kumuhaza.

-bifite icyo bihindura mu gituba, umwinjiriro wa nyababyeyi na nyababyeyi ubwayo ku buryo byoroshya isama.

-ku bagabo, kwikinisha bituma umugabo asohora amasohoro ya kera hakaboneka amasohoro mashya ashobora kugira imbaraga zo gutera inda kuruta akuze.

-abaganga b'ibibazo byo mu mutwe bemeza ko kwikinisha bigabanya agahinda, ibibazo byo mu mutwe bikanatuma umuntu yumva afite agaciro mu buzima(Hurlbert & Whittaker, 1991).

- mu mubano aho umwe ashaka igitsina kurusha undi, bituma utahaze arangiza ibibazo bye nta ngorane.

- gukinishanya, bituma abakunzi bamenya imibiri ya bagenzi babo bakamenya ikibashimisha mu guhuza igitsina.

- nk'uko Dr Graham Giles wa The Cancer Council Australia abihamya, kwikinisha no gusohora kenshi bigabanya ibyago byo kwandura cancer ya prostate

-Kwikinisha abantu benshi bamaze kubihitamo no kubikunda kuko bituma umuntu ashobora gushimishwa n'igitsina atarinze agorwa n'ingoruka zo guhuza igitsina n'undi muntu.

-Kwikinisha bivura kubura ibitotsi

IBIBI BYO KWIKINISHA

-guhindurwa umugaragu no kwikinisha
-kwikinisha kubera ko wabuze ikindi ukora
-isoni ziuruka ku kwikinisha

KWIKINISHA MU MATEKA

Hari amashushusho y'abagabo bikinisha yashushanyijwe ku ntare(ubuke-urutare) hirya no hino ku isi

Urujyo rwatoraguwe hafi y'ingoro y'imana zo muri Malta rwo mu kinyagihumbi cya 4 mbere y'iki gihe turimo(igihe cy'ivuka rya Yezu) cyerekana umugore arimo kwikinisha.

Mu Basumeri bo muri Mespotamiya(Ubu ni Iraq) kwikinisha byari uburyo bwo kwerekana imbaraga.

Mu Misiri, iyo imana zikinishaga zigasohora byagaragaraga nk'uburyo bwo kurema. Bivugwa ko imana Atum yaremye isi imaze kwikinisha no gusohora! Kandi bivugwa ko burya ngo amazi ya Nil ari amasohoro yayo. Wasanga umutwe w'imboro y'iyo mana Atum uba mu Rwanda, ari rwo soko ya Nil

Abagereki bo bemezaga ko kwikinisha ari byiza ndetse biruta ubundi buryo bwo gushimishwa n'igitsina. Babonaga ko ari byiza bituma ntawicwa n'umushyukwe ngo yiruke inyuma y'abagore cyangwa abagabo.

Umwanditsi Diogenes, ahamya ko kwikinisha byaremwe n'imana Hermes, imaze kugirira umwana wayo Pan impuhwe amaze kugerageza kureshya Echo ngo amuhe igituba akanga. Nuko imana Hermes yigisha umwana wayo Pan ibanga ryo kwikinisha ngo ajye yirangiriza ibibazo adakomeje guteshwa umutwe n'inkumi z'ibizungerezi.Pan nawe yahise yigishe iryo banga inshuti ze z'abashumba.

ICYO ABANYABITEKEREZO (PHILOSOPHES)BAVUGA KU KWIKINISHA

Immanuel Kant asanga kwikinisha bidakwiriye ari ukwitesha agaciro, ariko agasanga nta mpamvu igaragara yatuma umuntu avuga ko bibujijwe. Ahubwo ngo k'umuntu aba yimanuye ntiyihangane agakora ibishimisa n'inyamanswa.(ndlr-ahari yari yibagiwe ko turi ubwoko bw'inyamanswa). Nyuma yuko abaphilosophes bananiwe no kwerekana ko kwikinisha ari bibi, wabaye umwanya w'abaganga guharanya kwikinisha.

UBUVUZI NO KWIKINISHA

Mu 1716, i Londres mu Bwongereza hasohotse tract yitwa Onania(Bikomoka kuri Onan wo muri Bibiliya wasohoreye hanze ngo adatera inda umugore wa mwene se akabyara umwana utari uwe akabihanirwa n'Imana.) Muri iyo tract umwanditsi avuga ko kwikinisha ari icyaha cyo kwitesha agaciro kandi bitera umuntu kudashyukwa, gonorrhea n'izindi ndwara.

Mu 1760,Umusuwisi Samuel-Auguste Tissot, mu gitabo cye L'Onanisme, nawe ahamya ko kwikinisha bigira ingaruka mbi ku mubiri.

Byageze aho bakora amakabutura y'abahungu atabemerera kwikora ku gitsina bacishije ikiganza mu mufuka, intebe zo ku mashuri zitemerera abana kubumba amaguru no kubuza abakobwa gutwara amagare n'indogobe kuko byatuma bumva uburyohe mu gitsina bigatuma bikinisha. Abahungu n'abakobwa byagaragaraga ko bikinisha bavugwaga ko bafite "roho zoroshye."

Ibihano na byo byari biteye ubwoba; harimo kubabaza uwikinishije bamushyize ku mashanyarazi, uwananiranye bakamukona!Gukeba abana bakivuka byarakoreshejwe kuko ngo imboro ikebye ntibyoroshye kuyikinisha. Nyuma abantu baje kujya batera ubwoba abikinisha bababwira ko bazaba impumyi, bazamera ubwoya ku mubiri wose nk'ibikoko,kandi iryo terabwoba n'ubu riracyakoreshwa.

Uko ubuvuzi bubona ikibazo cyo kwikinisha byagiye bihinduka uko imyaka yagiye icaho. Mu mwaka w'1897, H. Havelock Ellis, mu gitabo cye Psychology of Sex, arwanya ibitekerezo bya Tissot wavugaga ko kwikinisha ari bibi cyane. H. Havelock Ellis atanga ilisiti y'abantu b'ibirangirire bo mu gihe cye bikinishaga. Yavuze ko "Kwikinisha mu rugero, mu bantu basanzwe badafite ibindi bibazo by'ubuzima, nta ngaruka bishobora kubatera."

Hagati ya 1940-1950,Alfred Kinsey , umuganga mu by'ibitsina ahamya ko kwikinisha ari ibintu byiza mu buryo bwa kamere mu bahungu n'abakobwa.

Mu 1994, Muganga Mukuru w'Amerika,Dr. Joycelyn Elders, yirukanywe ku kazi na Perezida Bill Clinton amaze kuvuga ko kwikinisha bigomba kwigishwa mu mashuri kandi abana bakabwirwa ko nta cyo bitwaye.

INKURU BIFITANYE ISANO

Isomo ryo Kwikinisha ku Bagore n'Abakobwa

Kwikinisha:Gushimishwa n'Igitsina Ntawe Mufatanyije!

Ibitekerezo ku Kwikinisha

Mbese Kwikinisha Birababaza?

Icyo Ubushakashatsi Buvuga Ku Kwikinisha

Ibinyoma ku Kwikinisha

Mbese Kwikinisha Hari Icyo Byantwara?

Mbese Abagabo Bafite Abagore Barikinisha?

Kwikinisha, Umugore no Gusohora

Kwikinisha:Inkomoko y'Isoni n'Ikimwaro

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:BOUGIE ZINUKA IGITUBA

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:KAROTI MU GITUBA

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:NASOHOREYE KU NDA YA MAMA

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:NASINDANYE IMBORO

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:UKO IMASHINI YANDUMYE IMBORO

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA: SPRITE

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:NIBAGIRIWE KAROTI MURI DOUCHE

GUTEKEREZA NO KWIKINISHA: MUGENZI WANJYE

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:IMPETA KURI RUGONGO YARI IMPITANYE

GUTEKEREZA:ICYANA

GUTEKEREZA NO KWIKINISHA:MBA NDEBA UMUGABO NKUNDA

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:GUSWERA MATELAS

Thursday, January 24, 2008

UKO NAFASHWE NIKINISHA:GUSWERA MU ICUPA

UKO NIKINISHA: GUKINISHA RUGONGO

GUTEKEREZA NO KWIKINISHA:NJYA NIFUZA BRITNEY SPEARS

UMUKOBWA WANJYE YANTWAYE UMUTIMA

NATAKARIJE UBUSUGI K'UMUKOBWA UTANYEGANYEGA

GUTAKAZA UBUSUGI BIGOYE:UMUKOBWA YAMVUSHIJE AMARASO

GUTAKAZA UBUSUGI BIGOYE: UKO DATA YAMFATANYE INKUMI

YOZEFINA:UKO NASWEYE UMUYAYA

YOZEFINA:UKO NASWEYE UMUYAYA

AMATWI ARIMO IGITUBA NTIYUMVA!

Hari hashize umwaka nshakanye na Tamari, umwana wacu wa mbere akambakamba. Mba mbonye akazi keza njya kuba mu gipangu cy'umushinga nakoragamo ngomba kuba umuyobozi wawo. Muri icyo gipangu nta cyari kibuzemo, harimo abazamu, bo kuturinda n'umuyaya-umukobwa wakoraga imirimo yo mu rugo witwaga Yozefina. Ibyo ubwabyo nta kibazo byari biteye, ariko Tamari yakoraga kwa muganga akirirwayo agataha ku mugoroba. Ubwo njye nirirwaga nkora, amasaha y'amafunguro yagera Yozefina akangaburira. Uko iminsi yagiye icaho ni ko nagiye mbenguka Yozefina ndetse nifuza ko twajya dusangira. Na we amaze kubona ko ijisho ryanjye rimukurikira aho agiye hose, yabonye ko mwifuzamo igituba atangira gukora ibituma nkomeza kumubenguka: yambaraga amajipo abengerana akoze nk'amasurujipe ntashyiremo ikariso ku buryo yatemberaga umuntu nkabona ukuntu ibibuno byizunguza muri ako kenda kagenewe kugusha abagabo, ubwo sinakubeshya nahoranaga umushyukwe utavaho, byaba ngombwa naniwe nkajya ahiherereye nkikinisha mutekerezaho.

Umunsi umwe Tamari yari yagiye gusura iwabo, noneho bumwiriraho ararayo, ku mutima "nti ndasakiwe uyu munsi ni uwanjye na Yozefina." Bigeze ku mugoroba nasomye ku rwabitoki, maze gufata umusa ntangira kumuganiriza, nawe si ukunganiriza no kunterekera amaso ugira ngo ni gatumwa, yumvaga ko kuba icyana cya boss bizakomeza amahirwe ye yo gutera imbere ku kazi. Ubwo rero ntangira kumutaka no kumutaramira ariko ncishamo nkakubita ijisho ku bibero, ngo nawe abimenye si ugutambikiza amarayo ku buryo ijisho ryarangirizaga ku igituba. Numvaga nifuza ko twahita tujya mu nzu tukarangiza ibyacu ariko hari hakiri kare, dukomeza kuganira burinda bwira tujya mu nzu. Yari umukobwa w'inkumi, ufite ikimero cyiza, yari afite amenyo yera, n'amabere akomeye. Yambwiye ko ari ubwa mbere yari abikoze ariko sinabyemera keretse mbyirebeye, naramusomye,mukorakora mu mutwe no ku mabere, numva uburyohe bwinshi, ntangira gushyira imboro mu igituba ntangiye gusunika mpura n'urukuta(hymen)nanga guhatiriza ngo nta mwambura ubusugi bwe kandi ntifuza kumugira umugore, nanirindaga ko namuvusha amaraso ariko nahise ndangiza kuko twari twabanje gukinishanya cyane kandi igituba cye cyari kegeranye cyane. Nguko uko nasweye umuyaya. Ariko nubu ndacyakunda Yozefina kandi ni inshuti yanjye kuko dufitanye ibanga. Igituba cy'ikibano kiraryoha, iyo mutekereje nkibuka ibyo twakoranye numva mukunze cyane.

GUSWERANA KU NSHURO YA MBERE:UKO NASWEWE KU NSHURO YA MBERE

GUTAKAZA UBUSUGI BIGOYE:UKO NARONGOYE MATELAS

UKO NAKOZE KU GITUBA CY'UMUKOBWA UBWA MBERE

GUSWERA BWA MBERE 5:NDAKURONGOYE!

GUTAKAZA UBUSUGI BIGORANYE:NATAKARIJE UBUSUGI MURI TITANIQUE.

NAOMI:UKO NASWEYE UMUYAYA

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Video zo Guswera z'Abahinde

Video za Rugongo nini

Video z'Abakobwa Barimo Kwikinisha
NAOMI:UKO NASWEYE UMUYAYA

Naomi, umukobwa w'imyaka 18 yajyaga adufasha kurera abana rimwe na rimwe. Ariko muri ano amezi ashize yari asigaye avanga akazi k'ubuyaya n'ak'umugore.

Umunsi navuye ku kazi hakiri kare mbere y'uko umugore ataha , ninjira mu cyumba cyanjye ntakoma kugira ngo ntakangura abana. Ngerageza guhamagara Naomi ariko sinumva ansubiza. Ndakomeza nzamuka escalier mpingutse mu cyumba cyanjye n'umugore, nsanga Naomi yiryamiye ku buriri bwacu. Yambaye imyenda umugore wanjye ararana,yageretseho umupira nkunda gusohokana, arimo kuringaniza neza umusego n'umutwe we. Yahise akubitwa n'inkuba, aramwara , atangira guhagaruka ku gitanda ansaba imbabazi. Ntibyamworoheye guhita ahisha amabere ye kuko atari yigeze afunga amapesi yo mu gatuza.

Nabuze aho ndeba n'uko mbyifatamo. Numvise nshyutswe, ariko numvise ntacyo byamarira mfatiye ikemezo mu mushyukwe.
Nabuze icyo mvuga n'icyo nkora. Nicara ku buriri iruhande rwe mubaza icyo yakoraga mu gitanda yambaye imyenda yacu. Ntiyansubiza, bisaba ko mbimuhatira.

Naomi yambwiye ko buri gihe yambonaga nk'umuntu mukuru, nka nyirarume ariko umwaka ushize ngo yumvise akuze atakiri umwana, bityo uko ambona na byo birahinduka. Yambwiye ko yatangiye kujya arota ari umugore wanjye. Yari amaze kuryama ku buriri bwacu inshuro ebyiri mbere y'uko mbimenya, ariko ashimishwa no kubona ameze nk'umugore wanjye. Gusa yamwajwe nuko natekereza ko ari umukozi udafite icyo yitayeho kandi udashoboye akazi.

Maze kumenya ikibimutera nahisemo kumubabarira no kuba nsohotse ngo muhe akanya ko kwambara imyenda ye. Yahise yishima, aransimbukira aransoma. Ikanzu yo kurarana ntiyari imufashe neza, ihita igwa ubwo yarasimbutse ngo ansome, maze mbona amabere ye meza akomeye ashinze mu gatuza, ariko ndihangana ndasohoka.

Nyuma y'ibyo, njye na Naomi twaregeranye, tuba inshuti kuko hari ibanga twari duhuriyeho twembi.

Hashize nk'ukwezi n'igice nongera gutaha hakiri kare. Namusanze yicaye ku ntebe n'abana areba TV. Namwicaye iruhande muterera akenya nti "Noneho ntugikinira mu buriri" Ati"Oya sindongera."
Ndongera nti"Ndabona umaze gukura"
Nawe ati"Ubu se urabona ndi mwiza? Amabere yanjye ni mato. Umugore wawe andusha amabere manini, nambaye soutien ye iba nini." Namushubije ko ubwiza bw'umukobwa butareberwa ku mabere gusa mwibutsa kandi kutajya yipima mu myenda y'umugore wanjye. Ngeze aho mubwira ko ntashimishijwe n'aho ikiganiro kerekeza. Aranyitegereza, andeba mu ipantaro hafi y'igitsina abona nashyutswe ku buryo bigaragarira mu ipantalo aransubiza ati"Ibyo uvugisha umunwa ipantaro yawe irabihakana!" Numvise ntunguwe nti"Sinakubwiye ko umwana amaze gukura!"

Nahise nzamuka mu cyumba cyanjye kuruhuka. Ariko nakomeje gutekereza kuri Naomi, ndetse iminsi ikurikiyeho nagiye ndota turimo guhuza igitsina. Ahubwo nahoraga nsenga ngo ntazavaho mvuga izina rye mu nzozi, kuko ntari gukira umugore wanjye. Ariko ndakeka ko ntigeze muvuga mu izina kuko nta kintu umugore arabimbazaho.

Nyuma y'aho nk'ibyumweru bibiri, umugore wanjye yatumwe muri misiyo y'akazi yagombaga kumaramo iminsi ibiri. Ambwira ko nta kibazo Naomi ahari kandi ko azamfasha mu byo nzakenera byose. Naratangaye kuko ubundi Naomi yakoraga ataha, ariko hano umugore yavugaga ko agomba kurara mu rugo kugira ngo antekere n'icyayi cya mu gitondo. Umugore yambwiye ko nta kibazo ko Naomi ari umwana mwiza. Ndamusubiza nti "Ni umwana mwiza nanjye ndabizi."

Kuri uwo mugoroba tumaze gufungura, abana bifuje gukina nanjye. Maze bafata intebe y'urwegamiro bayigira inteko y'umwami, bashaka izindi ntebe, baniyegereza uburingiti. Barangije batekereza inkuru ivuga ukuntu umukobwa mwiza w'igikomangoma yatabawe n'umuhungu w'intwari, akamukura mu maboko y'umwami mubi.

Ubwo mba umwami, Naomi aba umukobwa w'igikomangoma, bamwambika ikamba. Abana bose bahinduka umusore w'intwari. Nagombaga kuryama hejuru ya Naomi, nkamufata amaboko abana bakaza kumunkuraho. Ariko abana bagombaga kudusiga muryamyeho kandi muziritse bakajya mu kindi cyumba, nk'aho ari mu kindi gihugu, bakaza gutabara hashize nk'iminota itanu.
Nagumye muryamye hejuru mureba mu maso, mu gatuza ndeba imoko z'amabere ye mu ishati yaboneranaga. Nahise nshyukwa.Abana ntibatinze kugaruka bamunkuraho ariko nashize. Hashize akanya bajya kuryama. Dukomeza kuganira, dukina amakarita, nyuma akenera kureba film. Iyo video yari iteye ubwoba, maze akajya anyegera akanshyira umutwe mu gituza ngo atabona scene iteye ubwoba. Nanjye nkamuzengurutsa ukuboko. Yasa nushaka kwigira yo nanjye nkamurekura ati "Ntundekure iriya film iteye ubwoba." Ubwo ndongera murenza ukuboko kugwa ku ibere rye mbura uko mbyifatamo. Nawe anyegama ku bibero ku buryo ukuboko kwe kwari ku mayasha yanjye intoki zaguye ku mboro. Nari maze gushyukwa cyane kubera umwanya n'uburyo twari tumaze twicaranye. Natangiye gukorakora ibere rye. Nawe yatangiye kunkorakora ku mboro ariko ndamubuza nti "Have wikora ibyo. Ndi umugabo ukuze, ibyo wabikorana n'umusore mungana." Yahise ambwira ko abyumva kandi ko abisobanukiwe, ariko yambwiye ko yumva anshaka cyane ko nubwo tutahuza igitsina bisanzwe nibura twakoresha umunwa cyangwa intoki.

Umwana w'umukobwa yahise andeba mu maso afata imashini y'ipantaro yanjye atangira kuyifungura ankururira ku gitanda. Numvise mpinze umushyitsi, anyegereza ku buriri ndyama ngaramye na we anyunamaho ankuramo ikariso afata imboro yanjye mu ntoki, andeba mu maso ambaza uko babigenza kuko bwari ubwa mbere yegereye umugabo. Twari twumvikanye nta mboro ngomba kumushyira mu gituba kuko sinifuzaga kumutesha ubusugi bwe.
Twahisemo gukoresha umunwa. Namubwiye ko:

1)abikora nk'ubishaka

2)kundeba mu maso no gukurikirana uburyo ntakamo

3)kunkorakora hose:ku mutwe w'imboro, imboro yose ndetse n'amabya

4)kunsoma imboro acyambaye ikariso.

5)kunyereka amabere ye n'igituba no kubinshyira hafi ku buryo mbigeraho bitangoye.

6)kugerageza kumira imboro yanjye

7.Kumira amasohoro yanjye.

Uko yagafashe imboro yanjye mu ntoki ayikorakora gahoro gahoro ari nako arimo kundeba yumva amahame yanjye yitonze nakunze uburyo namubonaga yambaye ubusa imbere yanjye ku buryo ihame rya karindwi narivuze ndimo gusohora, nawe yahise ashyira imboro mu kanwa amasohoro yose amushiriramo.

Maze gusohora yahise akomeza gushyira mu bikorwa amahame yanjye ariko nari maze kunanirwa namusabye ko aba aretse nkaruhuka.

Yaragiye anzanira ka byeri, andyama iruhande, asomaho arampereza, ahita ansoma ataramira byeri yanyoye ingwa mu kanwa nanjye nkomeza kumukorakora ku mabere. Nyuma y'iminota mike nari nongeye gushyukwa imboro yabaye nk'igiti. Narahagurutse, ampfukama imbere, andeba mu maso atamira imboro yanjye, atangira gushyira mu bikorwa ilisiti y'ibyo namubwiye ko nkunda kandi nari niteguye noneho. Yariye imboro yanjye nk'iminota 30 nanjye mufata umusatsi w'inyuma ntangira gusa n'umuswera mu kanwa. Nabonye afunguye amaso cyane mubaza niba nta kibazo.
Yambwiye ko ari uko yishimye cyane ndakomeza. Sinatinze gusohora na none nawe aramira arangije aranshima cyane. Umukobwa w'isugi w'imyaka 18 w'igitangaza anshimira ko musweye mu kanwa.

Iryo joro twese twaraye mu cyumba cy'abashyitsi. Negutse negera igituba cye ndagisoma, ndakirigata, nkirisha iminwa yanjye, maze si ugusohora arasara nanjye ndamwihorera yamara kurangiza nkikomereza akongera agasohora. Yumva aranshimye kandi arankunze cyane ansaba ko muswera atega igituba amfata imboro ngo nsyiremo. Ndamuhakanira, noneho ansaba ko namuswera mu kibuno. Mubaza niba mu by'ukuri abishaka avuga ko ari uko nta bundi buryo abona yanshimishamo. Nahise nsinzira arimo kundigata amabya maze gusohora ku nshuro ya gatatu. Bigeze mu gicuku, nagiye ku buriri bwanjye, nza gukangurwa n'umugore avuye ku bitaro. Yasanze Naomi yarangije guteka icyayi. Namubwiye ko nta kibazo imirimo YOSE yayishoboye.

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